I was supposed to go to a BBQ with Med Student on Saturday afternoon, but I decided to blow him off. I am pretty annoyed with him, and not really interested in pursuing this with him at this point. I surprisingly haven’t heard from him either, since his “No worries” response to my blow-off text. I wouldn’t be surprised if he just randomly showed up unannounced. I also wouldn’t be surprised if I never heard from him again (ie. Weird Picture Guy.)
I did however, grow a set of brass balls today when at church. There’s a really cute guy “Church Boy” I’ve been creeping on for the last 3 weeks (and 9 months ago I remember him when I was going there regularly). I now strategically sit near him, but he never says hello. So I creepily observed him today and noticed he wasn’t wearing a ring. He also always comes alone.
As I was leaving, I turned around and noticed he was behind me, turning down a street.
“HEY!” I yell at the back of his head.
He stops and turns around to look at me.
“So I noticed you come here every weekend, and you’re one of the only other people under 80 years old. I just thought I’d say, ‘Hi’.”
I introduce myself, and he introduced himself. He then asks what my plans are for the day and invites me to brunch. So we walk down the street and proceed to have a one hour brunch together outside on a beautiful Sunday afternoon. He asks for my number when I depart.
It takes a little initiative sometimes I suppose. I hate approaching guys, but apparently my tactics to land a guy haven’t been effective up to this point.