The last few days have been interesting. With Bronze Star Hero out of town, it’s given me a mental and physical break from jumping head first in to a commitment with someone I barely know. He texts me throughout the day letting me know he’s thinking of me.
Here’s the problem. Today I was stalking what I could on his Facebook page (and no, I do not friend people right away on Facebook) and came across someone who appeared to be his ex. So of course I perused her profile, only to come across a psuedo-modeling photo in what appeared to be the same style and design house that BSH claims to own. The subtitle to the picture: What better than a photoshoot of yourself in a cool house for the last night when you can’t sleep?!
I go on to come across another photo of an empty closet with the subtitle: My walk in is so empty! ahhh!!! Followed up with supportive comments from friends talking about “moving on” and being with the “right guy.”
BSH told me that he and his ex did the “break up dance” for a while, which complicated things because she had essentially moved in with him. Last time we got together I clarified with him how long he’d been single for, and he said since January. This is funny, because according to his ex’s posts, she was moving out of his place on September 20th, which was 18 days ago, not 10 months ago.
And just to solidify in my mind that I’m not reading in to things, the last photo she posted was of her standing in yet again the same house, posing for the camera in a Halloween costume on September 28th. That would have been the day after we first met up, and the day before we spent the entire afternoon together last Sunday. A friend of hers commented to ask where she was, she confirmed it was indeed in BSH’s house.
He’s got some explaining to do.